Life is busy. Â Sometimes, it feels really hard because there's always so much to do. And then we want to write books or paint pictures or create things on top of everything else! We have to figure out a way to fit it in, andÂ when we do that, then comes the really hard part. We have to get started!
Is getting started really the hardest thing, though? A lot of usÂ have it in our heads that starting is hard (I know I do). I've heard the phrase "getting started is the hardest part" so many times, about so many things--diet, exercise, writing, pretty much everything IÂ might actually want to do--that it's kind of ingrained as truth now.
We've been brainwashed into thinking starting is hard, but it might not actually be so hard after all. Â Especially if we go out of our way to make it a little bit easier.
If you have a tough time getting started on projects, make a decision that you're going to do everything you can to make this project easy. Â Deciding up front that it's going to be an easy project, and reminding yourself as you go that this is going to be a smooth-sailing, easy thing, can change how you perceive your project. Â Deciding that it's going to be easy can make it feel easier.
But back to getting started. Â A lot of projects seem to have a natural starting place--chapter one, the first quilting stitches, the first strokes of paint on canvas. Â These are where we begin, right? But do we have to?
Instead of beginning in what seems like the one-and-only starting place, look for easy entries into what you want to do:
- Want to write an article? Â Make a quick list of things you want to put in.
- Want to create an outline for your novel? Â Set up the document first before deciding anything else.
- Want to paint a picture? Â Set out your canvas and brushes and paints (or, if that's a lot right now, just set out your canvas and save the brushes and paints for later).
Then walk away. Â Save the list or the outline document. Â Tighten the paint caps. Â Leave. Â You have started. Â And it was easy, right?
Now, keep doing things this way. Â Every time you're going to work on your project, look for what feels easiest to do. Â Every time you sit down to work, ask yourself "what can I do to make this easy?" Â The easy thing might be the next part in the work, or it might be something that you would normally think of doing later in the process. Â Go by what feels easy and doable, not what "should" come next.
Creativity doesn't have to be hard work. Â It's okay for things to be easy whenever you can make them that way. Â Your work won't suffer from making it easier, and you'll enjoy it more if it's not a struggle. Â Give yourself a break. Â Take the easy way.